2.29.2008

We want these!!!!!.....

ROCKABYE BABY is....
'an award winning series that transforms timeless rock songs into beautiful instrumental lullabies'.

CLICK BELOW TO VISIT THEIR WEBSITE, LISTEN TO SOUND CLIPS, AND SEE THE OTHER 19 ALBUMS THEY HAVE RELEASED - THERE'S SOMETHING FOR EVERYONE!!
http://www.rockabyebabymusic.com

We want the following:







You can't say we didn't try....

Needless to say I didn't get much sleep last night; meanwhile, Jason, feeling worn out from his meetings with NBC/Universal got to take a NYQUIL....this is a mortal sin in the pregnancy department! LOL. I was left up watching TV in complete belly discomfort until 2 AM then proceeded to wake up every hour thereafter until we finally gave in and 'woke up' about 6:30ish.

Our plans today, and reason for taking off (besides still being sick) was to sort our registrations/licenses in New Jersey. Ummmm, yea, we went to THREE DIFFERENT Motor Vehicle Agencies only to discover that the computer problems they were having was statewide. So, we must attempt to do this chore tomorrow morning.

By the time the chase for the DMV was resolved, we were starving and went to Red Lobster (it is Friday during the Lent season - no meat!). Afterwards, ran errands at Target + Wal-Mart and between it all picked up Olivia's car seat and ear thermometer with one of our everlasting gift cards.

Now, we're relaxing to make sure that I will have enough energy to be enjoyable tomorrow in the DMV line.

Amen.

2.27.2008

Family Finance 101


Since I am out sick I am between doing research on Olivia's savings + college savings as well as catching up on some reading. I could never take television while I am sick and it's even worse now that I don't even watch it unless Jason turns it on.

Anyway, so far it's been relaxing. Olivia is definitely not feeling the brunt of this infection as she has been out and about the past couple of days - which actually soothes me since she had been fairly quiet last week which made me nervous...but after all those 'resting' days she sure has picked up some strength in the karate + ballet department!

The reason we are looking ahead for Olivia's future is because Jason and I did not exactly have the easiest time growing up in the money department. The two of us have decided to really take a magnifying glass to our earnings and expenses to make sure that we get the maximum use out of our assets to live a healthy, fun and supportive life with our little lady (and the prospective others).

So far, I have constructed a detailed budget (down to the dog food and postage stamps!!) and have been able to calculate a possible savings of unexpected proportions! I find that our love and drive for a better life for our daughter makes sticking to the budget quiet easy and definitely makes you look at your life in perspective of what is and is not important. I am also looking into which bank (we have separate accounts) carries a better interest rate for 'Liv's savings as well as the pros and cons of a 529 account or the Coverdell (for college). Otherwise, our debt (outside of rather small payments towards student loans) will be paid off by the fall so the money which originally went towards debts now goes towards child care (helloooooo tax deduction #2!). All in all, we are able to continue live our lives that we have since Jason's over-time and such was never constructed into the budget - so any extra hours Papa works can go into savings for little holidays or new shoes! I like to think we make a great team ^_^

And, we were pretty blessed in the tax department again this year - as UN taxes can be a bit complicated...and will leave it at that.

Next Saturday, March 8th, we hope to attend a seminar at the American Museum of Finance in the Financial District to learn about ways to save/spend money for our child. Should be really cute since it's aimed towards families and also includes activities for children and Olivia always gets bouncing around when she hears other children closeby.

Besides the budget and a few large items we have to pick up for the nursery (ie, crib mattress, car seat, 2 shelves, an ear thermometer, and a playard - to be exact) we are just about finished nesting and preparing for our little one.

2.26.2008

It's official....


I am SICK.

I have a pretty bad upper respiratory infection.
The doctor has me out of work until Thursday to make sure it does not develop into a bacterial infection which could harm Olivia.

Last night was the worst! My uvula was so swollen it was chilling on the back of my tongue. I was so stuffed up I had to breathe through my mouth but I couldn't even do that because my uvula would choke me. If I can't breathe, Olivia can't breathe.

Anyway, hole-ing myself up in blankets. Good thing I have a stack of books I have been wanting to catch up on + a Milo to cuddle with...he always knows when I am down.

What a way to spend a birthday.
Atleast I'm taking Friday off...you know, to spend the day at the DMV.

2.25.2008

This week for the Sposa fam...

This evening I am going to curl up on the couch, watch THE GOOD SHEPHERD (borrowed from the library and due tomorrow) and eat a mixture of beef ramen, rice, a scrambled egg, + a couple of pieces of fried okra. LOL. I'm nursing a cold and it will be the only thing I've eaten today since I don't have much of an appetite. Just drinking A LOT of orange juice, vitamin C things, + water.

Tuesday evening will be a visit to the local library and followed immediately by our Newborn Care Class which Jason enrolled us in. Personally, it sounds intriguing and it's always fun to see the new techniques in person and compare it to everyone's old-fashion knowledge of caring for infants.

Wednesday I have my bi-weekly doctor's appointment. It is a morning appointment and should be interesting since I will be meeting with the final of the three doctor's from my doctor's office (to familiarize each other in case he will be the one in the delivery room). That evening we will have dinner with Jason's mom since she will be in town for business and will be a nice a prelude to my 29th on Thursday.

Thursday is work (or hardly working - since I will be excited for my birthday) and Friday Jason and I will be running errands switching our car insurance at the DMV and fitting in a birthday lunch at Chic-fil-A (craaaaving) and perhaps an afternoon viewing of either PERSEPOLIS or THE SPIDERWICK CHRONICLES.

The weekend has minor plans - one which involves a favourite little dude of mine's 2nd birthday party in Brooklyn (he is the son of my office BFF - so I can't wait to see him again!). Definitely a Happy National Pig's Day to him.

That's about it.
Busy busy busy.

Makes me tired and excited about this week just typing about it.

xoxo

The Peanut Shell


I am really excited about this purchase we were able to make courtesy a gift certificate from David + Katharine to a hip maternity store in Richmond, VA.

This means Jason get the Baby Bjorn + I don't have worry about constantly adjusting the straps between his weight/height and mine.

Check out this product and all that it can do here:
The Peanut Shell

2.24.2008

2.21.2008

Le Week-end

Well, our weekend plans have been moved forward quite a bit. What was originally to be a quick day trip to Richmond to drop off some of our belongings to go in Jason's mom's place for storage (until we buy/move into a bigger house)has now turned into a last-minute-pack-the-car-and-run-to-beat-the-weather-two-days-in-advance trip.

It's all good. Just another day in our adventurous lives.

So, once Jason and I are off I will run to the library to pick up the books I reserved (so they don't send it back to the original library), get the car, pack it full of the crap, prepare Buddy for his long weekend of catnip and debauchery to himself, pack Milo for his adventurous weekend at Grandma Karen's playing "Survivor", pack a bookbag for us to live out of, and pack the snacks for the car ride home.

Apparently there's some crazy storm in VA starting at midnight tonight and lasting/getting worse through Friday. We decided it would be best to be stuck in it for 2 hours tonight then ALL DAY tomorrow at the brunt of it.

Otherwise, we have a great weekend planned of thrifting and hanging with the grandparents eagerly anticipating the arrival of Olive and, I'm sure, lots of belly rubbing and watching and ooooh-ing and awwww-ing! Of course, she loves the attention. ^_^

So, wish us happy + safe travels!

I WON!!!



Jason's mom kindly gave us a subscription to TIME OUT NY / KIDS, which I have ever so enjoyed our first three issues thus far. Anyway, I particularly am fond of, as I am in the adult/weekly version of TONY, the giveaways to win free stuff - COME ON, who doesn't love free stuff?!?

Naturally, I sign myself up for any contest that is relevant to our pregnancy or can be saved for Olivia. Well, in the process, I also signed up for a free BIRTH'A BAG VIP (valued at $180.00) and was called today to be informed that I was one of the lucky winners!! LOL!!

The BIRTH'A BAG IS:
The Already-Packed Maternity Bag.

Filled with wonderful natural and organic products,
for the greatest of all moments, the birth of your baby!

Birth'a Bag conveniently doubles as a Diaper Bag .

Pack a bag! What should I take? There are many items an expectant mother should bring to the hospital or birthing center. Stay calm, focused, don't forget to breathe and leave the packing to us!

Birth'a Bag will help ensure that you have everything at your side to get you through the journey of labor. Birth'a Bag doubles as a diaper bag measuring 14x14x5" - complete with all the pockets and features in a great diaper bag, including a matching changing pad. Choose from the Birth'a Bag V.I.P (Very Important Pregger) or the Birth'a Bag Basic. It's the same bag on the outside, filled a bit differently on the inside.

In addition to the many natural and organic products it's filled with, Birth'a Bag is packed with love and warm wishes for a safe & happy delivery . A portion of Birth'a Bag sales is donated to organizations that support prenatal health and wellness.


I get to pick the colour and Jason gets a t-shirt (since he is my 'birthing coach', heehee). I LOVE that all of the goodies are natural and organic and that the bag can also double as a diaper bag (even though we already have a LeSportsac and a Skip Hop - LOL).

This is what comes in the bag:
Face and Hair
B. Kamins Face Cleanser
Vegetable based and gentle for all skin types

B. Kamins Facial Moisturizer
Essential nutrients moisturize and enhance radiance

White Towel Service Lavender Infused Washcloth
For cooling compresses or microwave to soothe and relax

Hair Stretchy
You may just need to get it out of your way

Wooden Hair Brush
Hair can look fabulous through the journey of labor and for visiting hours

Lizard Lip Balm
Natural base, petroleum free and oh so moisturizing

Recycline Preserve Toothbrush
Environment-friendly 100% recycled plastics in handle

Weleda Natural Toothpaste
Sensitive for delicate gums

Radius Natural Silk Dental Floss
Spun in natural beeswax

Body

Chandler's Natural Body Butter
For lush hand and body moisturizing

Chandler's Natural Lavender Body Powder
Soft and silky made of fine kaolin clay

Weleda Natural Rose Deodorant
Infused with pure essential oils

Weleda Lavender Relaxing Body Oil
Helps harmonize body and spirit

Perx Organic Lavender Towelettes
For hand, face, body and soul

CleanWell Natural Hand Sanitizer Spray
You can never have too many anti-germ items

100% Cotton T-Shirt
Your birthing coach, husband, partner (or all of the above) may need to change into something a little more comfortable. Please specify Small, Medium, Large or X-Large on order area

Snack

Yummy Earth Organic Lollipops (kosher)
The perfect remedy for feeling dehydrated

Chomp Natural Cookie
A snack for your birthing coach, it could be a while and you don't want to miss anything

Endangered Species Chocolate (kosher)
Again, thinking of the birthing coach plus this natural chocolate helps support habitat and humanity

Entertainment


Original Music CD
Calm relaxing birthing music that you can also download unto your iPod or MP3 player

Kodak Disposable Camera
Everyone wants to see pictures

LEARN MORE ABOUT THE BIRTH'A BAG HERE:
www.birthabag.com

2.15.2008

\o-li-via\


The girl's name Olivia \o-li-via\ is pronounced oh-LIV-ee-ah.

It is of Latin origin, and its meaning is "olive tree". Coined by Shakespeare as the name of a much-wooed aristocrat in his play "Twelfth Night" (1599). He may have derived the name from the olive plant, or as a feminine form of Oliver.

Biblical: the olive tree is a symbol of fruitfulness, beauty, and dignity. Today, "extending an olive branch" traditionally signifies an offer of peace.

2.13.2008

I'm ready for my close-up, Mr. De Mille....

Today was our big 3D ultrasound of our little Olivia. Although I went in rather apprehensive about the creepiness of the whole thing - it really turned out alright. It confirmed what we had been hoping...that is, my nose, Jason's lips. Yes, we have ourselves a little mixed-version of Baby Shiloh. Or like Jason likes to call it - a goldmine...a GAP baby, the Welch's kid (I've always found those kids kinda spooky, though), etc.
(FYI: Anyone else thinking of doing this, do it at Week 32. This is when they are the most visible and cherub-like. They con you into going at Week 26 so you get suckered into oooohing and awwwwing and then they say...'You should come back [because that's when they look like the examples in the brochure]'.....Oh well, we're the guinea pigs for our friends - HA!)

Of course, all day Olivia was kicking and doing somersaults; however, the moment she realized Mom + Dad spent money to see her she went on a sleep kick. She did wave at us quite a bit and yawned A MILLION times. Her eyes were open here and there and she likes to play with her head (which we've known about since she took the shape of a baby - in every ultrasound!). Oh yes, and she has my hands...long fingers - y'know, for piano playing. LOL.

Anyway, here are a few shots of her. We will also be adding more to my Flickr site, you can view them here:

http://flickr.com/photos/melaniesposa/sets/72157603122680821/

ENJOY!!!

FRONT VIEW: My button nose + Jason's baby lips = Mixed Baby Shiloh.


PROFILE SHOT: Squished up in a ball waving hi!!


PROFILE SHOT: Blurry close-up.


PROFILE SHOT: Big baby yawn!


PROFILE SHOT: I can't HEARRRRRR you!

UPDATE

The last of my bood tests - the glucose test for gestational diabetes, came back normal.

Woooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!

2.12.2008

Being Pregnant....

In my personal point of view, being pregnant is a tale of two stories. The first having a plot that includes the mother-to-be and the second including the baby and parents-to-be. For those of you who know me, I am a pretty outspoken person who will tell you how I feel if you care to inquire. In recent days, the question comes up on 'how I am doing'; namely, having to do with the pregnancy. Sure, fine, I get it; however, if I decided to open up to you and tell you exactly how I feel (versus the 'I am fine. How are you?' in passing) then don't try to judge me if you do not agree with my honest answer.

You see, more often than not, I let someone 'in'. I tell them how I don't particularly enjoy being pregnant (or, I like to call it the 'incubation period'...and not that I am denying myself any more children just because of this); however, I am TRULY looking forward to becoming the parent - to holding, loving, teaching, admiring my child - my creation. For those you who have been pregnant, you know where I am coming from. Sure, I experience those private moments with my darling Olivia. I will admire my growing belly and trace my fingers around a spot that I watch kicked outward; however, that is MY private experience and NO, it does not last all the time. You see, I am an independent person by nature and experience. I am also, when not pregnant, extremely flexible and always on-the-go (whether it is to exercising to break and incredible sweat, see friends, etc.). Being pregnant has greatly hindered these two major components in my life - that is, now I am quite dependent and at certain points of the day and certain positions, definitely immobile.

The biggest thing that 'irks' me when I mention my distate/discomfort to people, is the frown or look of concern when they do, in fact, catch me in one of these states (which is more often than not). Pregnancy is NOT a spiritual uplifting. I am FULLY aware of how lucky + blessed I am to be bearing a child with healthy circumstances and tests that prove to be healthy as well. I have my PRIVATE moments with myself and my husband; however, it SHOULD NOT be taboo to state how you feel negative or positive. THIS DOES NOT DEFINE what type of parent I will be. I am greatly looking forward to being a parent and believe that in being able to state my emotions allows for a broader spectrum of communication which I can SHARE and TEACH my child. If she is having a bad day - I want to know...don't lie and repress how you are truly feeling. Vent. Rant. Let it out, my darling Olivia...and most of all - be honest.

MATERNITY LEAVE

Maternity leave.
Every woman in the US has it; however, in an extremely unfair way. Luckily for me, the United Nations offers a four month with pay maternity leave which allows for benefits as well as accruing annual leave while away. On top of that, I can utilize any remaining annual leave after the original four months - which it is looking like I will have to do. So, in total, I will be out for approximately 5-1/2 months. Our works also allows fathers one month paternity leave which can be utilized in any increment within the first year of the child's life. Unfortunately, if I believe that I may need more time off, our work does not recognize the FMLA (Family Medical Leave Act) since the Act is primarily focused on US businesses and not worldwide non-profit organizations.

Now, our only dilemma is finding a place for our little Olivia from mid-October thru the end of December. As I mentioned in the past, daycares up north are a year's wait and we began enrolling her in January of this year (yes sir, BEFORE she is even born!!!!). We have some alternatives; such as, one of us taking 2-1/2 months off of work with no pay; however, this can be complicated since I do not want to compromise my contract and it is the 'busy season' for Jason to earn a large amount of over-time.

And yet...I am relieved to atleast the 5-1/2 months paid maternity leave (although, I think if another Republican ends up in office we may just become Canadian - HA!).


U.S. stands apart from other nations on maternity leavePosted 7/26/2005 5:12 PM
USA TODAY, Associated Press

In Santa Fe, Linda Strauss McIlroy, a first-time mother, is trying to get used to the thought of soon putting her two-month-old boy in day care so she can get back to work.

"It's hard for me to imagine leaving him," she says. "Just not being with him all day, leaving him with a virtual stranger. And then that's it till, you know, I retire. It's kind of crazy to think about it."

Across the border in Vancouver, Canada, Suzanne Dobson is back at work after 14 months of paid maternity leave.

"It was great," she says. "I was still making pretty good money for being at home."

Across the ocean, in Sweden, Magnus Larsson is looking forward to splitting 16 months of parental leave at 80% pay with his girlfriend. They are expecting their first baby in a week.

With little public debate, the United States has chosen a radically different approach to maternity leave than the rest of the developed world. The United States and Australia are the only industrialized countries that don't provide paid leave for new mothers nationally, though there are exceptions in some U.S. states.

Australian mothers have it better, however, with one year of job-protected leave. The U.S. Family and Medical Leave Act provides for 12 weeks of job-protected leave, but it only covers those who work for larger companies.

To put it another way, out of 168 nations in a Harvard University study last year, 163 had some form of paid maternity leave, leaving the United States in the company of Lesotho, Papua New Guinea and Swaziland.

How did it end up this way?

"To me it's a puzzle. I can give you all the arguments that have been used, but that still doesn't really solve the puzzle," says Jeanne Brooks-Gunn, a professor of child development and education at Columbia University.

According to Brooks-Gunn, some countries, like France, expanded maternity leave after World War II to fight falling fertility and encourage childbearing. That argument has been missing in the United States, where immigration has ensured population growth.

Jane Waldfogel, also a professor at Columbia, says another part of the puzzle is that the European and American feminist movements had differing goals.

In Europe, feminists emphasized special treatment for mothers, including maternity leave and child care.

"The American feminist movement didn't want to hear anything about mothers," Waldfogel says. "They wanted equal rights for women and didn't emphasize special treatment."

The U.S. feminist movement has moved away from this viewpoint, but that hasn't led to a change in maternity rules. One reason is that U.S. women are used to having about three months off and consider it the norm, Waldfogel says.

For many, of course, that norm feels alien. To Strauss McIlroy in Santa Fe, those three months certainly feel inadequate.

"I thought, being kind of a career woman, that I might be one of those who'd be kind of looking forward to going back, that I'd be all babied out," she says. "But I'm really very apprehensive about it."

In Canada, Dobson's feelings about her son, Gavin, and the country's maternity leave rules are a better fit.

"I don't think I would have been ready to hand him over to anyone at six months," Dobson says. "At 12 months, he's a little person, and he can kind of tell you what he wants and doesn't want."

There have been several attempts at introducing paid maternity leave in the United States. The Clinton administration wanted to allow states to use unemployment funds for maternity leaves, but that was shot down by the Bush administration after opposition from business groups concerned with increased contribution to state unemployment funds.

A bill introduced in the House by Reps. Pete Stark and George Miller, both D-Calif., would establish a fund that would replace 55% of pay for workers on FMLA leave. Contributions to the fund would come from employers.

"There are a couple of central problems when we look at paid leave legislation. The first is: who's paying for it?" asks Michael Eastman, director of labor policy at the U.S. Chamber of Commerce.

U.S. employers already pay $21 billion a year in direct costs related to the FMLA, Eastman says, in addition to indirect costs like additional overtime for those who fill in for workers on leave.

Waldfogel agrees that it's too much to ask employers to shoulder the cost of introducing paid maternity leave.

"As long as what we have in mind ... is asking employers to both hold the job open and pay the salary, we're going to get tremendous resistance from employers," she says.

California went a different route, and last year introduced family leave with around 50% pay for six weeks, paid from a fund that employees, not employers, pay into.

"Once they did that, there were no longer any objections from employers," Waldfogel says.

Five states — California, Hawaii, New Jersey, New York and Rhode Island — and Puerto Rico require employers to have temporary disability programs, which pay benefits if the pregnancy is defined as a disability by a doctor. A few others have infant care programs that pay subsidies to low-income families for up to two years.

In New York City, Kelsey Goss, a public-school teacher, is trying to build her tutoring business so she and her husband can stay afloat financially when she goes on unpaid maternity leave in October.

"When I tell people that as a teacher I get zero paid maternity leave, they're stunned," she says. "In a job like that, that's about taking care of kids, those are the benefits?"

How does she think her benefits compare with Europe?

"I don't even want to know," she says.

2.11.2008

And now for your weekend update....

This weekend was fun.
Billy + Becca came over on Saturday to help Jason paint the nursery (I did my part by replenishing snacks, organizing 'Liv's stuff in her new bins + baskets, and lending a supervisory tone to Jason here and there - LOL). It was really kind and we appreciate their help so much - on top of that they offered to host a baby shower for us in early April - so it will be REALLY nice to see our friends (especially those we haven't seen since getting knocked-up all in one place before the little lady makes her debut).

Anyway, the nursery looks AMAZING so far. The next day Jason and I hung her mirrors, curtains, and organized her closet. Finishing touches still to come include: two wall shelves [still sourcing] for her iPod speakers and other decorative knick-knacks, crib mattress/bedding, changing table pad/cover, a couple more pieces of artwork - oh yes, and OLIVIA!!!

I hope to post some pictures later today of the three of them working on the baby's nursery. Then next weekend, we shall post the finished nursery (sans mattress).

Today I had my monthly appointment at the doctor's and my LAST blood test, namely, for gestational diabetes (I get the results tomorrow afternoon and will post the results accordingly - as always). I got to hear her heartbeat (*stronger than ever*) and my uterus and weight is looking good according to the Doc.
EXCITING NEWS: WE ARE OFFICIALLY INTO OUR THIRD TRIMESTER AND WILL NOT BE ATTENDING DOCTOR'S APPOINTMENTS EVERY TWO WEEKS!!!!

This Wednesday, is Jason's big ultrasound (I say Jason's since I'm pretty apathetic whether we do a 3D or not). Or, as I like to say, we can see whose nose and lips Olivia generally has! Thursday, Olivia and I will spend Valentine's Day alone...and this weekend my parents are in town so we will get to see them briefly of Sunday.

That's it on the homefront.
Busy busy busy as Papa + I strive to complete our 'nesting'.

xoxo

2.08.2008

A brief rant....

My friend Jerah and I have this conversation more often than not lately. The subject mainly has to deal with immobility and the 'need' to be recognized - being a sacred vessel and all. Anyhow, I am a small girl (standing at 5 feet exactly and formerly a size 0). So far, at 6-1/2 months, you can only tell that I am pregnant from the front or side view - not so much from the back. It's even worse that it is winter so the heavy coat tends to cover the babe as well.

My rant is basically how annoying it is that since I am 'not' visibly pregnant from behind this does not mean that when walking on the street you can bump me around.

AND, when you decide to sit next to me on the bus...just because I look like a small girl from the neck up - PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't assume it means you get 3/4 of the two seats. In the past I put up with that crap - basically because I was, I don't tinier in my Nicole Richie jeans!!! Now, kindly allow room for me and my little girl..nothing extravagant, just, you know, MY HALF OF THE SEAT.

Oh yea, and on the bus...I probably won't take your seat if you offer it on a crowded bus but COME ON...don't pretend like you don't see me (especially if I am THE ONLY ONE standing). Sheesh people. Just because you don't make eye contact with me doesn't mean that you didn't see me - I saw you staring at my burgeoning belly...and I, once again being a sacred vessel, still damn you for the day for the mortal sin you have committed (especially when you're the nerd on the bus ironically reading a self-help book on leadership and moral values.....pfffffffftttttttttt).

How lovely!


I love this store; although, some items may be on the pricier end, the outlet is well worth it for the quality of the items and toys.

I love that the toys invoke children's creativity and imagination as well as that they tend to not focus too much on the gender identification most places have of pinks for girls and blues for boys.

Visit the store here....http://www.landofnod.com

2.06.2008

Cravings

Now into our 6.5 months of pregnancy I can honestly say that I haven't really had cravings as much as I have desired stuff. Nothing too unusual or so in demand that I foam at the mouth and turn into Mrs. Hyde.

Below is a survey of the top five things that I have particularly had a 'hankerin' for thus far....

1. STRAWBERRY MILKSHAKES (1st Trimester)
I have always enjoyed these since I was a little girl; however, during my first trimester it was all I could think about.

2. A VARIETY OF CEREALS (1st + 2nd Trimesters)
Fruit Loops, Strawberry Yogurt Cheerios, Golden Grahams, Strawberry Frosted Shredded Wheat.....those have been enjoyed so far for breakfast. Don't really dig the whole eggs and bacon, etc. for breakfast like I did prior to pregnancy.

3. TIE: PEANUT BUTTER + JELLY/SALADS (2nd Trimester)
Wheat toast, sugar-free raspberry or strawberry, creamy all natural peanut butter.
Salads - mostly oil + vinegar based, romaine, tomatoes, cottage cheese, salami, olives.

4. FRUITS (1st + 2nd Trimester)
ALL the time! Namely: strawberry, watermelon, mangoes, mandarins, clementines, grapefruits, peaches, cherries, pineapples.

5. CANDY (1st Trimester)

This is an odd one because I NEVER indulged in sweets until now. Even funnier is that what I crave are the same candies Jason enjoys so there's definitely a mix of blood cells or something going on there! Favourites include: milk chocolate, milk chocolate with caramel or peanut butter, sour candies (ie, Sour Patch Kids, Sour Straws, etc.).

A few blurbs...to keep you interested...

...or for me from falling asleep at work.
You see, my pregnancy self is used to hitting the sac at about 8:30; however, last night I was mesmerized by the primaries so didn't officially go to sleep until 12:30.

Atleast today it is warm-ish and the gals at work will be dining Japanese today. Yummmm.

Also, last night I was patiently waiting for Jason outside of his work before I hit the bus to vote when a passerby so nicely said...'That's a beautiful belly, mami.' It was nice...not so much flattering though since at that particular moment I felt like an over-sized human chickpea. Mmmmmmm, chickpeas...

I digress...

Besides blabbering on about looking forward to painting this weekend I thought I would give a tip to all those expectant parents about to paint their nursery as well....If you add two teaspoons of vanilla extract to your paint before you mix it it will get rid of the fumes. Do keep your windows open though - just because you can't smell it, doesn't mean it's not there.

Next week....the long awaited (on Jason's behalf) 3D ultrasound. In reality, all you can really see is the extremely GENERAL shape of the nose and lips. Hair, eyes, etc. not so crisp. The day before that is my diabetes test....whoever in their right mind told a pregnant woman to not eat when she wakes up, commute to the doctor's, then down some weird orange drink is obviously...well, a man. Anyhow, wish me luck - or patience.

I keep getting a hint of jealousy when another birth is announced...I just can't wait to feel a little more like myself (not so dependent hormonely and immobile)and to have Baby in tow.
Other moments...I feel so special when I see children. I smile to myself thinking 'I'm making one of those.' HA!

Neatest thing last night...watching The Nanny Diaries between the primaries. I am laying in my bed watching Olive's kicks on my belly with my t-shirt lifted...when out of nowhere...movement I have never seen!....It was like the Loch Ness monster was under a waterbed...a long, slow movement...not just a jab. It was truly amazing.

In final words....don't these ladies look great?!?
Just three weeks after birth.


2.04.2008

Lamazzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzze

You would think I were asleep this fine Monday morning with all my snoring in my subjects, eh?

Seriously, Jason and I almost fell asleep on a number of occassions in our Lamaze class. I think we would have been just as happy getting the material (ie, handouts and books), renting the DVDs, and going along our merry way. We paid $125; however, this was a steal compared to the +$250 the hospitals in NYC were asking. Basically, we had both already read everything they were trying to teach us and were bored with the questions that were being asked (C'mon people - you didn't read the books?!? LOL).

Anyhow, we have two more classes with the female version of Mr. Rogers in the next month or so. They are Newborn Care and Family CPR.

This weekend we also finished what was left to remove 'Mommy/Daddy belongings' from Olive's room. It was relaxing despite the need for my inhaler (gotta love the pregnancy asthma (!)). Next weekend is painting with the Makers and putting all of the baby's stuff away in their drawers, baskets and hangers. Once again - another weekend filled with reality setting in!

Blah blah blah - more Hollywood Baby Buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....




I know - it's getting tiresome for me, too - you know, this whole baby boom in Hollywood, but, alas, I started it so now I'm just keepin' it real. Besides, it will be cute when 'liv is all grown up to see who 'we' were pregnant and in cahoots with.

Bienvenue to: TORI SPELLING...and *ugh* Victoria Secret model Alessandra Ambrosia [as if there aren't enough food babies in the world and I am not already feeling like a Macy's hot air balloon.....and, yes, she is supposedly pregnant in these pics - they were just taken last Thursday.]


Still to be announced....Brangelina's rumored twins....