9.20.2008

Fall is in the air...

STATUS: 17 weeks old

...and we must dress Olivia Bee accordingly.
We went to our usual Saturday morning flea market with our dear friends KC + Aaron. It's always a treat to see them - always reminds us that we would like to see them and head over to Brooklyn more often than not.

Anyway, here she is in her kindergarten clothes!



Afterwards we walked around the mall and I inventoried what I will need to start work. I don't want to spend too much since I anticipate a continuous, steady weight loss (they say 9 months on, 9 months off)...so I am a size 4/6...and have a bunch of size 0s. So, currently making a list of reasonable basics to get me through the next 5 months! Wooooo!

OK....and here's a few more pics cause she's so freakin' cute and you can tell she's not quite used to all the layers she's wearing! LOL


9.19.2008

Olivia, my dear, music makes the world go 'round...


She loves music.
She's even captivated by songs I used to sing while she was in the womb...she gets a look in her eye as if she recalls it. So amazing.

Currently the soundtrack of her life includes:

STILL FIGHTING IT - Ben Folds
Track 1 + 2 (sorry don't know the title) - Lullaby Baxter (Album: Garden Cities of Tomorrow)
WANDA, LONGTIME SUNSHINE - Rivers Cuomo
I ALWAYS KNEW, BESSA - Tilly + the Wall
VALLEY WINTER SONG - Fountains of Wayne
SILVER LINING - Rilo Kiley
I AM ONLY A WOMAN - Jenny Lewis
EACH NEW DAY - Rose Melberg
Kimya Dawson (Album: Remember That I Love You)
...and most CHICAGO hits...

Today we also picked up Kimya Dawson's new children's album ALPHABUTT. I just put it in my iTunes (will have to wait to put it on Bee's iPod til I get to work)...but I am sure come on Monday she will love it during our adopted sing-along time.

Oh yea...is anyone else as excited about Jenny Lewis' ACID TONGUE release as I am?

9.16.2008

Doctor's Appointment

HEIGHT: 23.75"
WEIGHT: 13.9 lbs

We also received our 4 month vaccination! Here she is...just before the shots, of course (no tears from Bee or Mom...see Mom's look of anticipation).



Past weekend: Spent with Grandma
MONDAY: went with Mom + Dad to purchase iPhones (their anniversary present to each other)
TUESDAY: Dr's appt.
WEDNESDAY: meeting with daycare
THURSDAY: Milo appointment
FRIDAY: RELAX....
SATURDAY: Flea market with friends ^_^

9.09.2008

A day in history...a birthday celebration.


This morning I was still in indecision on whether or not Bee + I were going to attend the Cabbage Patch Kids' 25th Birthday celebration at Toys R Us in Times Square; however, after thinking about the long extended day of Jason not being home until 6:00 PM and the impending rain in the later afternoon as well as Bee's happy, talkative mood I thought I would give it a shot. At 9:00 AM I began to get ready for our trek across the Hudson. Thoughtfully, I packed a condensed version of Bee's bottles, diapers, etc. and only had to make sure the two of us were presentable, the lady was fed enough to last us to the city, and strap her into her mei tai carrier.

By 9:30 AM we were hitting the streets for the bus and were in the city by 10:07 AM - Bee, thankfully, was awake and observant during our walk to the bus stop (since she normally wears a sunhat and doesn't get such large views of the nabe) and crashed into a deep slumber once on the bus. The gal woke up by the time we hit the streets out of Port Authority and began our three block walk to the greatest toy store on earth. After passing Jamie Lee Curtis on the street (random!), we had reached our destination and were greeted by CPK workers with goodie bags, brochures, and lots of pictures. It was not at crowded as I had anticipated. In fact, there were hardly any children there at all...so little that even 'Mother Cabbage' who was delivering babies in the cabbage patch had bumped into us while we were picking out the perfect CPK for Bee that she freaked out and cameras went ablazin'. She promptly apologized and said, "Omigosh! This is what this is all about! This is a true Cabbage Patch baby!". Then, with her stethoscope in hand we posed with our CPK, Bee and 'Mother Cabbage'. We also took our CPK pledge to be loving parents and earned our autographed Certificate of Authenticity by Xavier Roberts, the founder!

Afterwards, Bee and I ventured to the 2nd floor to visit the Babies R Us section and picked up some spoons and bowls in preparation for her big girl step of eating solid foods. She got a little fussy but I just took her out of her carrier in the restroom and fed her a couple of ounces. She promptly regained her heart-melting demeanour and smiles and even earned her some free schwag by the cashiers and security guard who fell in love with her, too!

Although I would have liked to viewed the Wii section and stick around to meet the Food Network's Duff of ACE OF CAKES who was serving the celebratory cake, I knew then was the best time to stop by Dad's work and drop off the goodies to free my arms (just call it mother's intuition). Unfortuanately, Mother Nature did not have the same thought in mind as the afternoon rain we were expecting turned into a two hour rain which, of course, was during our commute to Dad's office and home. So, me SANS stroller and umbrella, threw on Bee's sunhat and a burp cloth over her head and speed walked to Dad's office two blocks away. Of course, I am trying to be quick without slipping with flip-flops on and trying not to get the wee gal wet; meanwhile, she has her whole hand in her mouth more or less wimpering that she can't see anything going on due to my makeshift shelter (sure, she had no idea the lengths I was going through - LOL).

So, we reached Dad's office and got to hang out with him for about an hour as well KOB and to finally meet Uncle Frankie whom she eyed curiously with wonder.

Luckily, Dad had a spare umbrella and an hour later had fed the lady, changed her diaper, and got her just ready for a nap - meaning it was time to go. The timing was impeccable - we got to the bus platform, the bus showed up in one minute, and the babes was asleep. She woke up just in time to realize we were back in the bedroom and full of smiles and excitement.

Overall, she LOVED Toys R Us and I cannot wait to take her again...maybe this time with a visit to the Sanrio store to boot!

Oh yea...another monumental moment? Bee normally naps in my arms or co-sleeps; however, today I laid her down with the opportunity co-sleep in case she wakes up crying (like usual) but instead she winced a bit, turned on her side, and continued sleeping for about 20 more minutes! She then woke up, I co-slept for 30 minutes, and she unlatched and slept AGAIN for 20 more minutes....which I then woke her since I didn't want her to sleep too much since it was late in the afternoon and didn't want her to get her schedule too screwy!



For those not knowing what a Cabbage Patch Kid doll is - you must be living under a rock - LOL!

Nonetheless, they are dolls created in 1983 with such craze that they have been in space and even attended the Olympics! They had their worldwide birthday celebration at the Toys R Us in Times Square.

I remember getting my first CPK doll after much hesitation from my parents for the ungodly price of them and inability to find them since they were sold out everywhere. We finally convinced them to purchase one...seriously, ONE that my sister and I had to share and for some reason had blonde hair and blue eyes.....hmmmmmmm - media obsessed much - LOL. Anyway, we ended up getting two more - a newborn and preemie. Overall, they were my friends for a LONG time and I hope that Olivia Bee will find the same comfort and friendship that I found in my little girlfriends (even though at the moment of purchase Bee is the same size as her doll! LOL).

Anyway, they are currently offering Limited Edition CPK dolls that feature the original yarn hair, clothing types and names. They also come with a silver spoon commemorating this celebration. The Certificate of Authenticity was signed by the founder, Xavier Roberts, just for today and I am excited to offer this to my little girl as well.

I cannot believe that it has been 25 years since I was able to form such a bond with a lovely doll and hope that 25 years from now Olivia Bee will be able to offer this same gift to her son or daughter during their 50th birthday celebration.

A Mother's Love


My days during maternity leave have consisted of movies...movies via the library, Netflix, and our cable's OnDemand feature. They afford me the ability to become committed to something while still having the capability of pausing when the wee lady beckons more intense attention then being swung on the rocker or cuddling in my arms. Recently I stumbled upon the cutest movie which I find to be the truest of heart. (Might I add that it had Jason crying at the end as well!)

It is the late Adrienne Shelly's masterpiece, WAITRESS. Thankfully my situation does not consist of the main character's strifes of a crappy marriage and an affair (I am at the other end of the spectrum with a magnificent husband but was pretty miserable carrying the baby in the belly though not for emotional reasons like Huffman's character); however, I believe it does identify the true lengths a mother will go to for her child as well as the sudden change in life's perspectives when you finally get to hold your baby in your arms.

So, to those pondering pregnancy or that feeling of motherhood check it out. It's probably the closest you can get [besides your intense love for your pet] you can get to.

xo

9.08.2008

We have been in denial...

...of the dreaded 4-month sleep regression and growth spurt. I knew the first month growth spurt was a long and awful experience and thoughtlessly convinced myself that as she got older the 'pain' of the spurt and development would not be so tedious.

I WAS WRONG.

This week she has been waking thru the night for feedings. The first night was for three feedings and the last couple of nights was for one. I was sure it would digress. Apparently - not.
We even checked for teeth and purchased some organic rice cereal in case the introduction of solids had reared its ugly head.
Nope.
She is definitely growing and showing more personality, attentiveness, curiosity, and speech by the day.

This evening it took Jason and hour to get her to sleep. Sure, she was tired. She was not hungry. She does not take to a binky- ever (we've tried every kind out there on the market) and did the normal ritualistic crap (swaddled, lights low, lavendar lotion, etc. etc). During the course of the hour she grew quite fond of two shirts drooling and pecking on them that Jason had to change into in the midst of his attempts of feeding her, swaying, and shushing in the dark nursery.

The 4-month sleep regression will supposedly make its ugly return in 6 and 8 months - just about the time when the baby is about to embark in some hardcore growing or milestones - like teeth, crawling, walking, etc. They will fight sleep and yet be tired. They will refuse the bottle and yet be hungry. And, all in all, only want to be fed by the nipple...when you have already given all you can give for that hour and need time to generate some more milk in the tired old ladies.

So, wish us luck for the remainder of the week.
This may be the decision breaker on whether we go to the Cabbage Patch Birthday Celebration at Times Square tomorrow. Why? Because I am going to be EXHAUSTED and will be home with Bee until about 6:30 PM. Oy vey.

So....future moms - be WARNED because they don't tell you these things in the books, you have to Google it and hope someone else used the same adjectives to describe your blunders.

Growth spurts and sleep regressions....yea, they're a bitch.

9.07.2008

Welcome to the valley of malls...


STATUS: first full of hour of honest to gosh laughing, giggling, etc.

Today Jason, Olivia Bee, and I ventured into the Wayne/Clifton/Passaic area of Jersey. We tend to stop around the area about once or twice a year. It is, afterall, home of THE Fountains of Wayne. Anyway, we went to the Wayne Towne Center and picked up some duds for the girl at Gymboree as well as two separate stops at Costco and Sam's Club....

I know, I know, I know.
How domesticated of you.
How suburban of you.
Honestly, they have some pretty good + cheap prices and selection of organic goods that we stock up on...and, hell, you can't beat the price of their Similac (for those supplementing with breast can I get an AMEN?!?). So, today we got some chicken, a pork loin which I cut half of into cutlets for a total of about 8 meals (Betty Crocker - here I come!), and some organic spring mix lettuce, tomatoes, mushrooms, + multigrain bagels.

So, this definitely has me excited. Why, you ask?
On so many levels it shows how life is getting easier. Believe me, I LOVE TO COOK...and the tiring feeling at the end of the day with a newborn, lack of time, and the full but disgusting belly from eating out for about two months can really get you down. Not to mention...we went to a variety of places today and Olivia Bee maintained her loveable, giggly, talking composure we've grown so accustomed to in the privacy of our own home....gypsy baby, she is!!!

This weekend also had us purchasing goodies or, as Jason likes to call them - school supplies for Olivia's daycare in October. Oh, and call me simple but I am STOKED about my new BPA-Free water thermos (since I threw my old one out promptly after discovering BPA was in my bottle while I was pregnant - sheesh)...I tell you, I am so low maintenance it's scary. LOL. We also went to Ikea to window shop for some new bedroom furniture for the Mister and myself...it's getting to that annual time where he and I basically throw out oodles of junk and redecorate a room in our home (finally our bedroom!).

Anyway, since I know I won't be able to hit this up until the middle of the week or so....here's a list of the coming's + goings.....

MONDAY: Jason works til 4 [boooooo!], dinner menu: pork piccata [yayyyyyy!]
TUESDAY: Jason works til 6 [booooooo, again!], Olivia Bee and I venture to Toys R Us in Times Square to meet Xavier Roberts and help him celebrate the 25th Anniversary of the Cabbage Patch Kids (oh, and snag her one while we're at it...and stop by the Nintendo Wii section for some possible new games for the big kids - yes, that would be us, and the Muji store, oh - and the SANRIO store....derp
WEDNESDAY/THURSDAY: relax with Daddy in Hoboken, dinner menu: chicken + sage/mushroom gravy, library
FRIDAY: Grandma is visiting us!